About Nilzara
Meet Nilzara Rivera, a Trauma-Informed Intuitive Healer, Transformational Coach, and Light Language Practitioner. Nilzara has a passionate connection to God, which has helped her explore and fine-tune her skills in distant energy healing, healing meditations, and light language. Her real, raw, yet loving approach creates a safe space where people are empowered to heal and unLayer the bullshit holding them back from being their unique expression of God.
In addition, Nilzara is a domestic violence survivor and advocate, has a degree in Applied Behavioral Science, is an international bestselling author, and has her Reiki 1, Life Coach, Health Coach, and Anger Management Coach Certifications.
But what best positioned Nilzara to be a healer and transformational coach was her decision to heal the emotional wounds that hindered her from prioritizing herself. She knows the exhaustion and pain that comes from living a life where her identity and self-worth rely on meeting the needs of others while neglecting her wants, needs, and desires. Nilzara now focuses on living a life of divine alignment.
Now that we have the “professional bio and picture” out of the way…
Hey! I’m Nilzara!
Yes, I’m all those things listed above, but I want to be more vulnerable with you.
With that being said, online, especially in my unLayering Effects Facebook group, you will most likely see me in full-blown mom mode; it’s a good mixture of sleeplessness and hillbilly.
So, more like this!
Anywho…
I’m a millennial Coconut Puerto Rican who grew up in a small town in Nevada. My father became an addict in my early teens, and it set me up for a rough and wild adult life. The abuse and neglect I experienced skewed my perception of love and how I viewed myself.
I desperately lacked in so many ways that it led me down a long road of toxic behaviors. Even as a devout Christian at the age of 21, I was still living out my trauma.
It wasn’t until I left my second husband that I finally came to terms with the fact that I was the common denominator in all of the bullshit I was enduring.
Let me clarify: I did not and still do not take responsibility for my father’s wrongdoings or the abuse that I endured. But, I had to realize that I was a part of the problem, that my lack of healing was perpetuating the cycle of craze in my life.
As I initiated my healing lifestyle, things started to shift for me. I reconnected with Jorge, now my current (and last) husband. When I moved to Virginia to be with him, significant transitions started because he gave me something I never had before love, safety, security, and belonging. This was a whole new experience, definitely uncomfortable yet beautiful. I connected with a trauma counselor, dove deep into all my trauma, and deconstructed from Christianity.
After three years, I went through the IVF process and had my son. After his birth, my life was completely repositioned again. I believe that although there was a physical birth, I also had a spiritual birth, and this is when I started to step into my spiritual gift as an intuitive healer.
Yes, I deconstructed from Christianity but not God. God is the one who has taken me on this rough yet astounding journey. My intuition and healing gifts are all divine, and I am honored and humbled to be God’s unique expression.